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See also: How to Peacefully Resolve Conflicts - proven techniques for individual, local and global conflicts
General guidelines Sometimes self defense is necessary. If there is no other way of protecting ourselves, it may be the only option. But all too often, violence is used when other methods would be more effective. It is important to separate the need for self-defense and the desire for revenge. Revenge fuels a cycle of violence that snowballs, hurting more and more people. As Gandhi said, “An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.” Everyone loses when we turn to violence and neglect peaceful methods. Whether it is a lifetime spent in prison, or the loss of life altogether, the consequences of our actions have very real results. So the next time you find yourself arguing with either a loved one or a stranger, remember everything you have to lose in conflict, and everything you can gain through peaceful resolution. Our differences in opinion can teach us to enjoy and value our differences. This can help our families, communities and world have more peace, understanding and mutual cooperation. How to Peacefully Resolve Conflicts - proven techniques for individual, local and global conflicts
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