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The feel of a warm hand, a gentle squeeze of affection and a sincere voice are tender signs of love. But what if that’s replaced by constant shouting, name calling, blows to the flesh and feelings of inadequacy. Is this life of teenagers in love? Of course, not all teen romances are like this, but at least one in three high school students get involved in an abusive relationship. Teens are vulnerable because they are new to romantic relationships. About 40% of teenage girls from 14-17 years say they know someone who was beaten by a boyfriend. This is no secret in the world of teenagers. Some teens feel that it’s normal to act in this manner because it happens so often. Many are pressured to act violently; it makes them feel powerful. www.acadv.org/dating.html People who grew up with abusive parents are more likely to end up in abusive romantic relationships. Teens who witness very violent acts often act out in a similar way. They sometimes can’t help themselves or don’t know how to get help. Though some teens feel powerful when they’re violent, their victims often feel deeply humiliated or suicidal. Still, some find it hard to end an abusive relationship. If they do leave, sometimes the abuser still targets them and their relatives. Here are some helpful tips:
The teen years are hard enough, but the most beautiful
experiences shouldn’t be tarnished. Love should come from the heart. It
should never come from pain. More Self-Help Info
by By Denessa Bachelor, Hearts & Minds intern |
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